第1个回答 2011-01-28
在生活中,我们每天都会与父母、同学、老师、朋友生活在一起,有时甚至还要和陌生人交往,那么如何与这些人相处呢?我认为必须要做到善待他人。因为善待他人也就是善待自己。
善待,看似一个很简单的字眼,但要我们每个人都做到却是一件不易的事啊!善待他人就是无害人之心,就是与人为善,就是成人之美。善待他人要做到理解、信任、尊重、宽容、关心、帮助他人等。也就是要学会说话、做事将心比心、换位思考,多替他人想一想。
善待他人是传统美德,是为人之本。当你善待别人,别人也会因此善待你,你还会感受到其中的乐趣。人们不是常说“帮助他人,惠及自己;关爱他人,快乐自己;赠人玫瑰,手有余香吗?”任何一个人的存在,都是以别人的存在为前提、为条件的。所以,善待他人实际是在善待自己,是为自己争得人的尊严、资格、神圣和权利。
善待他人要学会理解。因为理解是爱,理解是认同,理解可以融化一切。每个人都有自己的生活方式和情感世界,都希望得到别人的理解,也希望理解别人。假如你真诚地理解别人,会意外地得到更多别人的理解。而只希望别人理解自己,而不会理解别人的人,永远不会如愿以偿。
善待他人要学会宽容。宽容是做人必备的美德。与人交往中离不开宽容。法国作家雨果曾经说过:“世界上最广阔的是海洋,比海洋更广阔的是天空,比天空更广阔的是人的胸怀。”在我们生活中,待人处事,如果没有宽容,就没有理解,就没有友情,就失去了善良
善待他人还要学会帮助。帮助他人就是帮助自己。你把最好的给予别人,就会从别人那里获得最好的。你帮助的人越多,你得到的帮助也就会越多。只有那些乐于帮助他人的人才会获得别人的尊重。当我们帮助他人的时候,我们付出的是自己对别人生命的爱,就仿佛给别人的生命之树捧一掬清泉。同时,我们付出得越多,内心就越充盈,幸福感就越强。
你善待别人,别人同样会善待你。这是多么美好的事情。只要我们人人都心中充满爱,都拥有一颗幸福、宽容、感恩的心,去善待每一个人,你会发觉这个世界是如此的美丽,人与人之间是如此的美好。
第2个回答 2011-01-27
I have studied Thai language for some time. Now I can remember I was exciting when I first time to study the Thai language, everything is fresh and funny. But now I feel the Thai language is very difficult to study.
The most difficult is the pronunciation, for example, consonant [th], it has six alphabets to pronounce, and they distribute in the high consonant [th] and the low consonant [th]. Otherwise, in the course of study we found other problems of pronunciation, we practiced pronouncing the sound again and again, we thought we have not any problems, and the pronunciation same as the teacher’s, but the Thai teacher said that we made mistake in pronunciation.
The rule of thai pronunciation is more difficult and complicated than English and Chinese. It has a lot of special case, it is required that we should open new area in our brain to specially remember these rules.
In addition, Thailand is hierarchical country. Different classes use different words, Thai society has four scenarios when the language is used: royal court, religion, community, and traditions. Above all, royal court and religion, we should use carefully. No better illustration of this usage than the example mentioned below, the word “ YOU “ has more than eight words in Thai, different classes use the different “YOU”.
As to me, pronunciation and the language usage in the cultural tradition and background are difficult about learning Thai language.