Students Outlook on Love
Introduction
Outlook on Love - the opposite sex between the physical, psychological and environmental factors interact with each other, love, admiration and foster the process of ideas.
In today's colleges and universities, college students love is a very common phenomenon, and the average age of college students around the age of 20 is already legal citizens, adults. Protected by law and constraints. In sex, both psychological and physiological maturity period. They are keen to love, and the Chinese university regulations, rules and regulations expressly provides that in school students can get married. Thus, college students love this is beyond question. But love is followed by the ideas on the exclusive, volatility, so that endless quarrels between lovers, because the situation of the storm, dropped out of school, regret for life; to love, fight, bloody incidents occurred on campus. The two emotional cracks, vulnerable young people chose to commit suicide to escape soon broken romance. So these are for college students should have pure, loyal love painting on the sum of gray, so that the community in question: Should college students during their studies dating? In love with the school's choice about what is more important?
From another point of view, with the introduction of Western ideas and social phenomena, and university students to new ideas, while also accepted the "sexual liberation" of "sexual freedom." This kind of thinking, they have not for marriage, love, love is not a sincere performance. After graduating from the development of love as a "power source"; to love as a college ranked Jie Youchou methods; to love as a kind of fashion, a way to demonstrate their ability. Students in the emancipation of the mind at the same time, ignoring the moral, social, legal constraints and condemnation. Another way of thinking for college students should have a normal love painting on the sum of disgraceful. So that the community also asked: These are the contemporary college students should do out of do?
As one about to graduate, college counselor engaged in the work of young teachers in the university's five years (specialist three years, the undergraduate years) heard about, witnessed the college students were trapped in the pain of love for the love all kinds of violence triggered by parts, due to circumstances and the passing away of the young lives ... .... Because of the future will be engaged in frequent contacts with the college students, therefore, how to understand the late adolescent college students; how to enter their inner world, so that they grow up healthy, successful completion of their studies, success is my ideal, is my goal. Want students to ideals, aspirations, wants parents to be assured that the community be assured that the most pressing issue that the issue of college students Outlook on Love. This is a top priority. Contemporary college students are mostly one-child, character Snob, emotionally fragile, and how to enlighten them and help them out of the feelings of misunderstanding it? So that a decrease in incidents of unnecessary pain, or even disappear?
I have always had a deep study of the issue will be in love wish to take this thesis opportunities for young people through the psychological, physiological understanding, access to a large number of books on adolescent mental health; in the fact that the network access to a large number of cases; extracts from the papers of many experts and scholars in essence; plus five years of his ears during the school witnessed familiar examples, their own ideas in mind, the completion of this paper.
Study of contemporary college students Outlook on Love, aimed from the physical, psychological understanding of contemporary college students knowledge and attitudes of the Outlook on Love, citing examples of analysis because they do not correct the many problems caused Outlook on Love, and Western thinking, and social impact on college students Outlook on Love , by linking theory and practice, so that students will realize that love, to guide college students to correct the Outlook on Love and smooth through college, made love and the cause of the "double harvest."
Outlook on Love Problems of College Students
Since the last century since the 90s, due to the foreign "sexual freedom", "sexual openness" of the impact of Chinese adolescent mental maturity stage of a gradual advance, but because of psychological immaturity, making a number of unhealthy, immature love ideas generated. This unhealthy, immature love the concept will have a direct impact on adolescent psychology, physical growth; but will also affect countries in the new century the cultivation of young talent. Institutions of higher learning, as a small community of energetic young people more susceptible to outside influence. Network unhealthy information and negative social atmosphere, making psychological well-produced one after another misunderstanding that contemporary college students a new Outlook on Love also remember with affection. The age in which college students are part of the ideological maturity of the critical period. More than 20-year-old college students are in the bloom of age, full of love, desire and longing, the pursuit of beautiful moments in life, hoping to understand the opposite sex and get the opposite sex's attention. In fact, as early as secondary school, youth who aspire to rise to the opposite sex, understanding sexual twilight period and the nature of Simu period, but due to the parents, teachers and academic pressure to "suppress", the feeling can only be suppressed. After entering university, the family suddenly reduced the binding, the interaction between the male and female students more opportunities, in a relatively relaxed and free environment, the "Love" will be in the psychology of college students the rapid emergence and development. Love and academic is naturally become a university student in school was facing two major problems. Love relationships handled properly, correctly, can be a catalyst for learning and career that people learn from its efforts to increase performance; love affair handled properly, it could disperse energy, a waste of time, mood swings, decline in performance. Therefore, the understanding of university students Outlook on Love, correct and guide them to the concept of love is necessary.
1, contemporary college students Outlook on Love
Outlook on Love is a heterosexual physical, psychological and environmental factors surrounding the interaction with each other under the process of love, admiration and nurture ideas, college students love being a university student's psychological, physiological, relative maturity, psychologists, Lin Mao, and Mei-ping is more in its "Analysis of Driver Lloyd's theory of the impact of college students toward love and sex, "the book, 13 universities in Shanghai 1862 sample survey of college students come to this conclusion: the concept of contemporary college students by Western thinking, in the" sexual liberation "fuzzy answers accounted for 34.3%; as long as there is love there is, everything is no problem accounting for 29.2% answered in the affirmative. With the introduction of Western ideas and social impact of the outside world, family factors, makes the contemporary college students showed a "new" concept of love.
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