《傲慢与偏见》中伊丽莎白是怎么转变对达西的看法的

柯林斯夫妇请伊丽莎白去他们家作客，伊丽莎白在那里遇到达西的姨妈凯瑟琳·伯德夫人，并且被邀去她的路馨山庄做客。不久，又见到了来那里过复活节的达西。达西无法抑制自己对伊丽莎白的爱慕之情，向她求婚，但态度还是那么傲慢，加之伊丽莎白对他有严重偏见，便坚决地谢绝了他的求婚。这一打击使达西第一次认识到骄傲自负所带来的恶果，他痛苦地离开了她，临走前留下一封长信作了几点解释：他承认彬格莱不辞而别是他促使的，原因是他不满班纳特太太的轻浮和鄙俗，并且认为简并没有钟情于彬格莱；威肯说的却全是谎言，事实是威肯自己把那笔遗产挥霍殆尽，还企图勾引达西的妹妹乔治娅娜私奔。伊丽莎白读信后十分后悔，既对错怪达西感到内疚，又为母亲的行为羞愧。她逐渐改变了对达西的看法。
　　第二年夏天，伊丽莎白随舅父母来到达西的庄园，与他再次相遇。她发现达西变了，不仅对人彬彬有礼，在当地很受人们尊敬，而且对他妹妹乔治娅娜非常爱护。她对他的偏见消除了。正当其时，伊丽莎白接到家信，说小妹丽迪娅随身负累累赌债的威肯私奔了。这种家丑使伊丽莎白非常难堪，以为达西会更瞧不起自己。但事实出乎她的意料，达西得知上述消息以后，不仅替威肯还清赌债，还给了他一笔巨款，让他与丽迪娅完婚。自此以后，伊丽莎白往日对达西的种种偏见统统化为真诚之爱。

The next day, Mr. Darcy intercepts Elizabeth on her morning walk and hands her a letter before coldly taking his leave. In it, he justifies his actions over Bingley and Jane — he says he believed that Jane was indifferent to Bingley's advances and feared that his friend's heart would be broken if he continued to court her. Darcy also details his history with Wickham, who has misrepresented his treatment by Darcy and, shockingly, even attempted to seduce and elope with Darcy's young and vulnerable sister. Elizabeth is mortified that she has made an error in judgment and been prejudiced as she realizes the inconsistencies in Wickham's stories. New light is shed on Mr. Darcy's personality and Elizabeth begins to reconsider her opinion of him. Later, on holiday with her aunt and uncle, the Gardiners, Elizabeth is persuaded to tour Pemberley, Mr. Darcy's estate, on the understanding that he is away. To her embarrassment he returns unexpectedly; however, his altered behavior toward her — distinctly warmer than at their last meeting — and his polite and friendly manner toward her aunt and uncle — who have made their wealth in trade - she is persuaded that underneath his pride lies a true and generous nature. This impression is reinforced by the testimony of his staff who speak of his kindness towards them and his tenants. Her revised opinion is reinforced on meeting his sister Georgiana, a gentle, shy young girl upon whom he dotes.

Just as her relationship with Mr. Darcy is beginning to thaw, Elizabeth receives the dreadful news that her headstrong younger sister Lydia has eloped with Mr. Wickham, who has left his commission to evade gambling debts. She returns home, believing that this scandal can only further disgust Darcy, whatever he may feel for her personally. All is in chaos at home, particularly when it becomes apparent that Wickham has not married Lydia and the two are living together in London. Mr. Gardiner apparently traces them and arranges the wedding, delighting the foolish Mrs. Bennet. Only from a careless remark of Lydia's does Elizabeth discover that it was really Darcy who secretly intervened, buying Wickham's compliance and saving Lydia's reputation at great financial cost. This completes the reversal in Elizabeth's sentiments.

Soon after, Mr. Bingley and Jane Bennet are reunited by Darcy, and they become engaged. Lady Catherine discovers Mr. Darcy's feelings for Elizabeth, which threaten her long-cherished desire for him to marry her sickly and unattractive daughter. She pays Elizabeth an unannounced visit and brusquely tries to intimidate her into refusing such an engagement. Unfortunately for Lady Catherine, she then visits Darcy telling him of her visit to Elizabeth and Elizabeth's refusal of her demand, hoping to get him to give up the attachment. But instead this gives him the hope that if he proposes to Elizabeth again, she may accept him. He speedily returns to Netherfield and again asks Elizabeth to marry him, and this time she accepts.

Darcy could not suppress his love for Elizabeth, asked her to marry him, but the attitude is so arrogant. Elizabeth resolutely declined. So that the fight against the West for the first time recognized the self-pride brought about by the evil, pain, he left her, before they leave behind a long letter to explain a few points were made: Bingley, he admitted that he walked out to the Because he is dissatisfied with the flighty Mrs. Bennet and vulgar, and that Jane does not love Bingley; Witkin said it's all lies, Witkin is the fact that the sum of their heritage squandered away, attempting to seduce Darcy's sister elopement. Elizabeth regret very much after reading the letter, both of Darcy Cuoguai feel guilt and shame for the mother's behavior. She gradually changed to the West.
With Elizabeth maternal uncle came to the parents of Darcy Manor, met with him again. She found that Darcy has changed, not only for the people polite, very popular with local people to respect and love for his sister very much. She was his Prejudice eliminated. Time and Elisabeth received a letter from home, Lydia said that the young girl carry numerous negative Witkin's elopement of a gambling debt. This house is very ugly to make Elizabeth embarrassed that the West will look down on their own. However, beyond the fact that her surprise, Darcy was informed of the news, not only for Witkin pay off a gambling debt, a huge sum of money returned to him so that he and Li Ya at the end of the marriage. Since then, Elizabeth Darcy of the past all the prejudice of good faith into all love.

其实是达西先为了伊丽莎白而改变的啊，伊丽莎白在达西求婚的时候说了很多关于达西性格的看法，另达西大为震惊，所以后来达西就开始注意自己的言行举止了，逐渐变得平易近人了。后来伊丽莎白去他的庄园时，从她对他亲戚的态度发现达西变得很多。另外，伊丽莎白在故事的发展中也得到了很多的真相啊，比如军官的事，以及达西为了她妹妹所做的一切，都令伊丽莎白大为感动啊！
我觉得两人在一起实在是太有爱了，简奥斯汀的作品都是很富有现实感的，很高兴你也对它有兴趣