真诚求助：眼光太高，难以找到爱情，很苦恼

The all things sees open , also only so-so
Love is two door, a close the happiness, a close unfortunate, but the key is in oneself's hand
Believe the oneself!!!
Your he is very quick and then will appear, this is 1:00 to you to encourage.
But you should change your viewpoint, you think that your condition is very superior by yourself, wanting to seek good of, have no perfect in every way person in the world, the love is to can't measure with the material foundation, if you have felling to him to explain that your pole becomes the companion probably.
First, seek to love own person but do not seek the person of oneself's love.This choice that is under the condition of equal.
The next in order, choose the possible person but is not to all day long sink to immerse in the imagination, to hold tight the at present happiness.
The third, a little bit actuality, put your condition a little bit and low.Difficult have the perfect in every way person in the world, you should know this.
End, comprehensive consideration once your intention person, carefully and more a lot of, do a rational choice, So, you have to hold to cherish in the moment, cherishing would have the better development, cherishing then can have the fine future
In fact your problem is easy, key at with you, is not your opportunity and did not arrive, is also not your true love and did not come, but you do not understand by yourself how to hold, your condition is not the 苛 to engrave, certainly seeking of equal status, slice to record must of equal status, this is however remark based on personal experience, otherwise matrimony after you will regret of, is not to play trick!I felt that you are a very outspoken girl from of your words, confessed the fancy very much, but harmed the person very easily, you was divided into two of your loves extreme: love or don't love, love a person to combine is much more than only to fall in love at first sight, is to need the boundless development of, your another the half are nearby at you perhaps, just that you have not yet discover, you should tried to strength of understand the other people, considered the problem from the other people's angle, thus you will even be good at the confidence, if you refused the somebody else a while, the other party will have no face very much, the somebody else will feel that you can't handle affairs, if you don't like can first from general the friend made, boundless understanding the other party of various, not only your friend would be several, but also will raise consumedly for find out your another half of all rate thus, don't want to be persistently to pursue the romance, in fact mild also is an in romance, that will even let you realize the loving true meaning.In fact you than I greatly 3 years old, do not see me small, can I and my another half have already muched talk for 5 yearses, and wanted the register at the end of this year, so many year already there is no romance to be talk, but is this affection is what any can't act for, mild is also a kind of happiness.I from the bottom of the heart bless you here!

女孩谈感情是很注重感觉的

不晓得你是咋样？应该也差不多
敏感的动物

就发挥自己的本能咯
看上合适的就去追

这个世界不是一定要男追女啊
当然如果别人找上门了
不喜就拒绝是很好的
不要为此烦恼吧/？

没有找到合适的只是你去接触的男生太少而已吧
幸福有很多种

拥有是一种
其实在拥有之前的这种过程也是
看每个人怎么去看待了

心是属于自己
不要把自己的心藏起来
没事跟朋友分享下
只要心中有爱
自然会得到爱神垂帘的

真的有这么难吗？实在不行找我。 [ 英明神武╭☆盖世无双╭☆人见人爱,花见花开╭☆ 打遍天下无敌手╭☆情场杀手鬼见愁╭☆的其哥就是↘↘ωǒ ] 。开个玩笑，不要介意啊！其实人有时候确实是太贱了点，就拿我来说吧！到现在也还是单身一人，也不是自己没喜欢过别人，也不是别人没对自己好，可自己就是没感觉，或许是跟你一样，要求有点太高了吧！可看看自己，在想想别人，自己看不上她，说不定她还看不上我呢？郁闷，搞不懂壮况，算了吧！就这样算了吧！在想也没有用，以后在说咯。。。

你说你的自身,家庭,工作都是非常好的.那你的工作既然是人中一流的那和你工作的人也不应该差到哪里去,你说你喜欢的人有女朋友,追你的人你看不上.这样并没有什么.不过我要说的是,我相信有一见钟情,一见到那个人你就有感觉,但你知道他对你也有感觉吗?我觉得你应该敞开心怀去接受你身边的人,感情是培养养出来的,你连个机会都不给人家怎么知道就没有可能呢,外表是不能吃一辈子的,97和99老人有什么区别吗.你找人到那种懂得爱情的人,而不是只有外表的人.
希望你能找到你心目中的美男子.

要知道人无完人,把自己的要求放低点
要善于发掘一个人的亮点,也许你就会因为这个亮点而觉得他的好,你应该也可以发现现在并不是帅哥配美女的社会了,要从多方面去追求而不是总把眼光放在别人的缺点上,谁没有缺点呢,要懂得包容,这样你就会觉得原来这个人还不错呢,你说呢?我这个人对男人的要求也很高的,但是其实往往喜欢上的也不是说就是特别优秀的男人
因为他的某一点让自己很心动,就会对他产生好感的
你试试,不要一开始就把一个人否定了